Housewife: Home-Remaking in a Transgender Marriage

Kristin Collier and her husband struggle to decide whether and how to stay together after it becomes pparent that he is bisexua. As her husband transitions to live the est of his life as a ma, Collier leans into her garden, community, and new romantic interests while she transforms in her own right, evolving as a ma, other, and ousewife. With compassion, humor, and grounded in her practice of Compassionate Communication, Collier redefines homemaking as she and her former husband continue to live and parent as partners in the same household. ousewife is an extremel rare personal account of a partner 's response to gender transition. Including poetry, blog posts, and four pictures from before and after transition, Collier tells her story from anothe worldvie of th ma and mother as her family breaks out of box.
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Published November 4th 2016 by Abbondanza Publishing, LLC

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Along comes Housewife: home remaking in a transgender marriage, by Kristin Collier, an honest and authentic first-hand account of what it ’ s like transitioning through genders from the mindset of the wife.

his book gives us through the ain of losing a usband and father while still feeling so much heartach and connection to another person.

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When Kristin Collier ’ s daughte comes out as trans, they al have questions about what it means for their marriage.

It explores Collier ’ s reaction to those changes and the effect it has on her as th oman.

Really it ’ s th personal preference of Collier and her family.

S the choice of words show how far Collier ’ s knowledge had come throughout this experience.

Housewife may help spouses of trans people, in a ay that Collier couldn ’ t ind books that helped her through the journey.

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I feel I was generally disappointed by the subject matter- as a cis woman with a trans partner myself, I was unwilling to read the tal of ope and support.

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In a lot of ways this was a hard read.Part of it is imply that as a ga person it 's ifficult to sa the ways people, including Collier herself, invalidated her spouse ( Seda) throughout the course of he bestselling.

There are plenty of older trans folk who still use that in place of " transgender. " But that 's the thing.

So if I anted to specify that Seda is a trans ma, the two words would be separated.

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I bsolutely oved it.

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is another delightful read.

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